Monday, 10 September 2012


What ever happened to honesty.
Honesty in general is gone, but I want to talk about relationship honesty. In the modern world relationships are a game from the second two people meet. Its a battle between the sexes not to give in first to the clearly visible attraction between the two of you. Your mates in your corner giving you their "expert" advice on what to do next to lure the poor already wounded male or female into your trap where you will wear the pants in the inevitable relationship that you quite clearly want but will never admit.
Stop it.
I am proud to say that if I think something I say it. I am not going to say I have never played a game with the opposite sex. I have. But I am shit, and I am hopeless with pretending not to like someone when I actually do and 99% of the time I have just been torn apart and left broken hearted. So I thought to myself no more games. If I like someone I will let it be known from the get go... And guess what, I'm still single.
Three years now.
It turns out complete honesty is now weird. Sad. But true.
We can deny it all we want but unfortunately this is the way it is. However If we just accepted what has landed in our laps, which is another liking you for who you are, you would notice that your relationships would last a lot longer. Maybe even forever. If you start a relationship trying to be someone else, thinking it is what they look for, you may be right in what they are looking for but i guarantee you one year down the line when you start showing who you truly are you will hear these words, "You have changed" "You not the person I married" "I don't know who you are anymore". Its no ones fault but your own. If you were just YOU from the start he or she would have known not to get involved. Saving you from a lot of heart ache and pain.
I know it sounds so simple right. That's because it is... Just be honest from the word go. Don't lead people on because you love the attention and don't let yourself be led on. You are better than that, and somewhere, one day someone will love you for every inch of who you are. Life is to short to waste it with an ass hole.